Creating your personal vision – Part VI

January 20, 2012 By 5 Comments

Our dreams are important. If they weren’t we wouldn’t set out to chase them. So what is that transforms a dream into reality? The answer is quite obvious… take massive action.

Sounds so simple. First, see the dream. Next, draw up a map to get to your dream. Finally, arrive at your dream. There is flaw in this simple plan. The flaw, as you can see, is no action.
Imagine this, if you intend to get to the second floor of a building and elevator is broken you need to climb the stairs… one step a time. You need to exert energy moving your feet and heading in the direction of the second floor. The same applies to living your dream. You have to take action and climb the stairs toward your dream one step at a time.

Here are several ideas for taking massive action.


Get off the couch – The couch is your enemy. The couch is mediocrity and failure. Choose to ignore those soft cushions and climb your dream steps by replacing couch time with massive action time.

The ten-minute rule – I love this one. When I was in sales I learned the ten-minute rule. Part of sales is rejection and rejection can lead to stagnation, dread, and failure in the business if you are not strong enough to plow through that dark moment. By using the ten-minute rule you can jump-start your massive action button. Make a deal with yourself that you will work on your dream for ten minutes only. I know this will lead to more than ten minutes because once you are engaged it become easier to continue.

Create the habit – It has been said that it takes twenty-one days to create a habit. I have no scientific proof that this is correct or not. What I would say is pick an amount of time that you are willing to commit to, say five day or seven, and honor your commitment to take massive action over that period of time. This is creating a habit that will help you continue on toward your dream.

Life or death – Here is a fun way to get you to take massive action. Play this game. Say to yourself that today is the last day you will be able to realize your life long dream and the only way to achieve it is through immediate and massive action. I have referred to this in the past in my blog post “Five steps for leading a team forward” when I wrote about acting as if.

The carrot and the stick – Sometimes we need a motivator to help us move forward. I know I need it now and again. Make deal with yourself. If you do X then you will be rewarded with Y.

Remember your values – Part of creating a personal vision for your life is to also create values that you subscribe to and agree to honor. Ask yourself if you are living your values by waiting on your dream or engaging in moving massively toward what you have visualized. If you are on that couch and waiting, you are not honoring, you are creating guilt in your mind. Stop it and choose to honor what you agreed to live by.

Ultimately, achieving your dreams in life is about will power. Will you or won’t you do the things you need to do to realize the life you imagine.

How would you rate your will power to truly live what you visualize and what will you do right now to begin the journey?

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Forgiveness

January 15, 2012 By 7 Comments

Who is it we need to forgive anyway?

Really think about that question. Is it our brother, sister, Mother, Father, spouse, partner, or maybe a past friend? Who is it?

Who you need to forgive deep down is probably not who you thought. It all begins with you. If you can’t forgive you how can you be expected to forgive another person? You will continually be out of balance with your life.

Forgiveness begins with you.

And what have you done anyway that is so bad you need forgiveness? Did you steal something, smoke something, or speak badly toward others? Or did you do something so bad you have never told anyone else? Carrying the guilt that tags along with forgiveness is a weight on your heart.

Here is how you begin the process of forgiveness.

First, choose to forgive yourself for your trespasses against yourself and others.

Next, use the power of meditation to uncover those transgressions that have caused the need to forgive. Write them all down. This is a process I recommend repeating again and again. Don’t rush the discovery period. Some things you need to forgive yourself for will be clear and other will need uncovering and discovering. Maybe they lay in your subconscious mind.

Now, feel how those things you need forgiveness for are affecting you. Does it feel good or do you feel a knot in your stomach? Then, you need to commit to owning the item for forgiveness and deal with letting it go. Put away any denial. This may take courage so that you can be open and honest with yourself.

Write yourself a letter stating how forgiveness will help you. Own your unhappiness and let it drift away.  Then let the light of happiness stream into your mind and heart.

Forgiveness is the first step toward a life that matters. Begin by forgiving yourself first and others second. When you are clear, then you can proceed ahead realizing your dreams.

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