Creating your personal vision – Part VI

Our dreams are important. If they weren’t we wouldn’t set out to chase them. So what is that transforms a dream into reality? The answer is quite obvious… take massive action.

Sounds so simple. First, see the dream. Next, draw up a map to get to your dream. Finally, arrive at your dream. There is flaw in this simple plan. The flaw, as you can see, is no action.
Imagine this, if you intend to get to the second floor of a building and elevator is broken you need to climb the stairs… one step a time. You need to exert energy moving your feet and heading in the direction of the second floor. The same applies to living your dream. You have to take action and climb the stairs toward your dream one step at a time.

Here are several ideas for taking massive action.


Get off the couch
– The couch is your enemy. The couch is mediocrity and failure. Choose to ignore those soft cushions and climb your dream steps by replacing couch time with massive action time.

The ten-minute rule – I love this one. When I was in sales I learned the ten-minute rule. Part of sales is rejection and rejection can lead to stagnation, dread, and failure in the business if you are not strong enough to plow through that dark moment. By using the ten-minute rule you can jump-start your massive action button. Make a deal with yourself that you will work on your dream for ten minutes only. I know this will lead to more than ten minutes because once you are engaged it become easier to continue.

Create the habit – It has been said that it takes twenty-one days to create a habit. I have no scientific proof that this is correct or not. What I would say is pick an amount of time that you are willing to commit to, say five day or seven, and honor your commitment to take massive action over that period of time. This is creating a habit that will help you continue on toward your dream.

Life or death – Here is a fun way to get you to take massive action. Play this game. Say to yourself that today is the last day you will be able to realize your life long dream and the only way to achieve it is through immediate and massive action. I have referred to this in the past in my blog post “Five steps for leading a team forward” when I wrote about acting as if.

The carrot and the stick – Sometimes we need a motivator to help us move forward. I know I need it now and again. Make deal with yourself. If you do X then you will be rewarded with Y.

Remember your values – Part of creating a personal vision for your life is to also create values that you subscribe to and agree to honor. Ask yourself if you are living your values by waiting on your dream or engaging in moving massively toward what you have visualized. If you are on that couch and waiting, you are not honoring, you are creating guilt in your mind. Stop it and choose to honor what you agreed to live by.

Ultimately, achieving your dreams in life is about will power. Will you or won’t you do the things you need to do to realize the life you imagine.

How would you rate your will power to truly live what you visualize and what will you do right now to begin the journey?

Create your personal vision – part II

Year ago I was introduced to a tool aptly known as the balance wheel. The purpose of the balance wheel was to indicate your level of happiness related to these eight areas of your life. It was an assessment tool for personal improvement.

Here is a picture of one balance wheel and the eight areas for living a rocking life.

The idea behind this wheel is to determine how satisfied you are in each of these eight areas of your life. Any area that comes up low on the zero to ten assessment scale is a prime candidate for improvement in your life. I will share more of the scoring system shortly.

I suggest you begin with these eight and adjust as you find the need so that your balance wheel morphs to your life balance. And first, the “why” for using this balance wheel.

The overall purpose of using the balance wheel would be so that you can see what is working well in your life and what may need attention. For example, in my balance wheel I discovered that my lack of physical activity was creating poor eating habits, low energy, and obesity. If this key area of my life was out of control (balance) how could I go out and “Help people create a vision that matters.” I would be selling a lie.

Can you see that balance in each area is support for the other? This activity also helps you live the vision you intend.

As I used the balance wheel in my own life to assess where I was in each of these categories something important occurred to me. These three areas were highly important to supporting my personal vision and if I worked more diligently on each I would learn to help others in a genuine way.

These are my three top visions created from my balance wheel activity.

My vision for my life (including my health) is…

I envision owning my own motivational company that helps others maximize their potential in life. This allows me the life I intend, and lifts others to the life they may have envisioned as well.

I envision a body lighter, blood pressure lower, and vibrant with energy and happiness.

My vision for my work, career, job, and team is…

I envision a career path that begins today. Over the next 18 years, I expect to become a respected senior leader who will be remembered as an innovative thinker who did more than talk.

My vision for my relationship and family is…

I envision a more relaxed life with my wife. This will come about by reducing our debt and interacting more often instead of watching television.

I envision the best for my children. Ryan is off to a running start. Megan is in need of more hands on attention. I would like to help her financially and first I must help myself.

From these vision statements came the plan, the goals, and the actions.

Now… let’s dive into your vision statement. Please don’t worry about the personal vision statements yet, we will get to that later. For now we will work on completing an accurate balance wheel for you.

First, pull out a clean sheet of paper and draw a circle. Divide it up as shown above, into eight sections. Label each category.  The center of your balance wheel represents zero. Zero represents that you are completely not satisfied in this area of your life. It may be a prime indicator that you need vision and a plan for personal improvement in this area of your life. On the outer edge of the balance wheel is 10. Ten would indicate you are totally satisfied with this area of your life, no action may be needed.

Really give serious thought to each area of your balance wheel. How satisfied are you in that area?

Rank each area of your balance wheel from zero (needs help) to ten (working well). If you indicate a low number, such as two or three, this is an indicator that this area of your life needs work. You may need a clear vision and plan for improving your number.

Discovering where you presently are may be a great tool for bounding forward in creating a life that matters, and is balanced, for you. Begin here. Find out what is working and where you have opportunities. Vision will come from this activity.

Stay tuned.

 

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