Creating your personal vision – Part VI

Our dreams are important. If they weren’t we wouldn’t set out to chase them. So what is that transforms a dream into reality? The answer is quite obvious… take massive action.

Sounds so simple. First, see the dream. Next, draw up a map to get to your dream. Finally, arrive at your dream. There is flaw in this simple plan. The flaw, as you can see, is no action.
Imagine this, if you intend to get to the second floor of a building and elevator is broken you need to climb the stairs… one step a time. You need to exert energy moving your feet and heading in the direction of the second floor. The same applies to living your dream. You have to take action and climb the stairs toward your dream one step at a time.

Here are several ideas for taking massive action.


Get off the couch
– The couch is your enemy. The couch is mediocrity and failure. Choose to ignore those soft cushions and climb your dream steps by replacing couch time with massive action time.

The ten-minute rule – I love this one. When I was in sales I learned the ten-minute rule. Part of sales is rejection and rejection can lead to stagnation, dread, and failure in the business if you are not strong enough to plow through that dark moment. By using the ten-minute rule you can jump-start your massive action button. Make a deal with yourself that you will work on your dream for ten minutes only. I know this will lead to more than ten minutes because once you are engaged it become easier to continue.

Create the habit – It has been said that it takes twenty-one days to create a habit. I have no scientific proof that this is correct or not. What I would say is pick an amount of time that you are willing to commit to, say five day or seven, and honor your commitment to take massive action over that period of time. This is creating a habit that will help you continue on toward your dream.

Life or death – Here is a fun way to get you to take massive action. Play this game. Say to yourself that today is the last day you will be able to realize your life long dream and the only way to achieve it is through immediate and massive action. I have referred to this in the past in my blog post “Five steps for leading a team forward” when I wrote about acting as if.

The carrot and the stick – Sometimes we need a motivator to help us move forward. I know I need it now and again. Make deal with yourself. If you do X then you will be rewarded with Y.

Remember your values – Part of creating a personal vision for your life is to also create values that you subscribe to and agree to honor. Ask yourself if you are living your values by waiting on your dream or engaging in moving massively toward what you have visualized. If you are on that couch and waiting, you are not honoring, you are creating guilt in your mind. Stop it and choose to honor what you agreed to live by.

Ultimately, achieving your dreams in life is about will power. Will you or won’t you do the things you need to do to realize the life you imagine.

How would you rate your will power to truly live what you visualize and what will you do right now to begin the journey?

Fear is your enemy… defeat him!!

The truth is we can see the future. We know exactly what we want out of our life. It is clear as day. Well… for most of us.

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As an example: I see myself on stage speaking to and inspiring thousands. I have always seen that in my mind. You might call it my perfect life. Oh to do that. Now that would be pure nirvana. So, why do we dream instead of do? It’s a fair question and I have a theory.

It may not be a popular theory and it is only mine. You decide. My theory is we are locked up (jailed) by fear. Fear is a powerful imagination that acts as a jailer. Fear keeps us confused, unable to move, cautious, and right where we are today. And fear doesn’t even have even use bars and key to keep you locked up… it is all in your mind.

For some of us we have no fear at all. We thrive on conquering fear. You see this in people who scale mountains, jump out of airplanes, and do risky things in life. They have confidence in their ability to survive and so fear never conquers them. They remain free from the jail of our mind.

If this need for thrill seeking is not in your DNA then what? Then you will need to deal with fear.

Think of fear as an army inside your mind. Their goal is really to keep you safe. Fear is keeping you safe by causing you to doubt your decisions, leaving risk alone, and lowering your self-confidence. Seems like a survival and protection mechanism that has been place inside of us over time. The trouble is… by keeping you safe this army of fear is actually working against what you really want. Thus ensues a battle of the mind.

To overcome it will take work. It will take repetitive work.

It all begins with a decision. The decision you need to make is to stop allowing fear to keep you jailed. I made my decision many years ago by simply putting fear on notice. That notice included a physical letter I wrote to General Fear and let him know that he was done, finished, through robbing my freedom and perfect life. I was ready to do battle to destroy him.

After you make your decision you will need to tend the garden. I say tend the garden because fear will come back. He doesn’t listen well and seem to have a one-track mindset. That mindset says, “Keep (insert your name here) safe.” Use affirmations to keep fear in check. Here is one you might use.

“I am living the life I always imagined because fear is dead.”

Or, use your own. It is only an idea.

These are anchors that help you stay focused on your perfect life and not on fear. Other anchors are good books, blogs, mentors and coaches, and accountability groups or partners.

I would really like to here how you keep fear away.

Finally, you can keep fear away by journaling about him. Write as if you are having a conversation with fear. What would you tell him? Sounds crazy and it works.

Be your best weapon and take on the jailer of your mind… fear.