Who is it we need to forgive anyway?
Really think about that question. Is it our brother, sister, Mother, Father, spouse, partner, or maybe a past friend? Who is it?
Who you need to forgive deep down is probably not who you thought. It all begins with you. If you can’t forgive you how can you be expected to forgive another person? You will continually be out of balance with your life.
Forgiveness begins with you.
And what have you done anyway that is so bad you need forgiveness? Did you steal something, smoke something, or speak badly toward others? Or did you do something so bad you have never told anyone else? Carrying the guilt that tags along with forgiveness is a weight on your heart.
Here is how you begin the process of forgiveness.
First, choose to forgive yourself for your trespasses against yourself and others.
Next, use the power of meditation to uncover those transgressions that have caused the need to forgive. Write them all down. This is a process I recommend repeating again and again. Don’t rush the discovery period. Some things you need to forgive yourself for will be clear and other will need uncovering and discovering. Maybe they lay in your subconscious mind.
Now, feel how those things you need forgiveness for are affecting you. Does it feel good or do you feel a knot in your stomach? Then, you need to commit to owning the item for forgiveness and deal with letting it go. Put away any denial. This may take courage so that you can be open and honest with yourself.
Write yourself a letter stating how forgiveness will help you. Own your unhappiness and let it drift away. Then let the light of happiness stream into your mind and heart.
Forgiveness is the first step toward a life that matters. Begin by forgiving yourself first and others second. When you are clear, then you can proceed ahead realizing your dreams.
